After my rude awakening yesterday, I wish I could say that the rest of the day got better but it didn’t. (Not until the very end of the day). I decided to take the girls out to get some last minute shopping done and took my sister in law Kerri with me. I picked her up just after 11am and off we went. Lea was upset in the car the whole time, was actually throwing a screaming, hissy, tantrum, fit. She wanted Daddy and no amount of consoling would do. So, Kerri and I just did our best to ignore her and continued on our way!
Did you know, that the person at Tim Hortons will take pity on you when you go through the drive-thru with a screaming child and give you a large coffee instead of a small and then wish you “good luck!”
Things got better when I was able to get Lea out of the car and let her walk a bit. She was great in the store, and we averted a major crisis when she dropped her timbit on the floor by grabbing a package of fruit snacks and giving her one of those instead. The rest of the day went pretty well, Lea took a nap in the car on the way home and Bee got to sleep a lot later than normal since we were out.
I would like to say that Lea got better, but she has been so whiny these last few days. I just spoke to her Grand Father and apparently the Holidays can cause as much stress as a negative experience and the result is a tired, cranky child. Add to that the fact that she is 2 and definitely testing her limits and it makes for lots of challenges for us.
When dinner time came around, I had planned to have the always nutritious, quick and easy old reliable chicken nuggets, fries and frozen veggies. I have planned to make enough for all of us, but little did I know that we only had a couple chicken fingers and a very small amount of fries left. So, the girls ate, and we didn’t. Just one more thing to add to my bad day!
After Bee left for his night shift, I decided to bathe the girls. It is usually a good distraction for them (since they don’t like to see Daddy leave) and that was an adventure all on it’s own. I am learning that two kids means constantly changing routines and the way I do things. My new challenge is that Lea can now climb in and out of the tub on her own. When bathing the girls together, I used to take Anna out first, dry her off and dress her on the floor while Lea played in the tub. Last night, I took Anna out first, as usual and Lea decided to follow suit. I now had two, wet, cold, dripping girls to deal with. What a mess J

I know this may sound like a terrible day, but it actually ended very well. Anna was very tired, and grumpy and possibly teething. For the first time in months, she fell asleep on my chest and we just lay together on the couch that way for quite some time. One of things that I miss the most about having babies is cuddling with them, especially when they are asleep. It was such a great end to an otherwise lousy day; to lie on the couch, with the lighted tree and my sleeping babe (oh, and Young and the Restless of course!).